Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Last day at my college

Well today(10th june 2008) was the last day at my college and everyone had come to college only with one intension that is to meet everyone and cherish every moment and we had our last exam today( Statistics-4) and no one were worried about exam and busy speaking to everyone and meeting each other as it was the last time all our classmates would be meeting, later everyone would be going to different fields. for me this day was something very special and as soon as I entered college the 1st feeling which runned through my mind was today is the last day so need to meet everyone so that I can treasure the friendship and I spoke to all my friends bid farewell to everyone and had a great time, in the mean time all the moments spent at college were getting recalled by themselves, I experienced both good as well bad moments & then I found that I would be a graduate, though the institute was not that good but I found a remarkable change and development in myself - from a shy natured gal to a brave one, from a gal who had some sort of fear to face the crowd to a gal who became the strongest to face the world , from a gal who had stage fear to perform to a gal who can perform on stage with confidence without any preperation, from a gal who was silly to gal whose thoughts have been matured, from a gal who was poor in academics to a gal who is the topper, a gal who used to never mingle with people to a gal who has become social and know almost everyone at my college, a gal from pecimistic to a gal of optimism, a gal who was not active to a gal of hardworking, a gal who was very poor at co-cirricular activities to a gal who became the strongest competitor, finally i can say that there is a complete transmission in my personality mentally and emotionally and all the credit goes to the challenges that life bestowed on me and took me all the way, step by step, step by step helped me out to become a good person and i should thank the God for all the support that he gave. And also, I am thankful to the teachers and my friends who were supportive. It was all possible because of all effort I did and never went. Finally I'm done with my graduation but now the question is what about the future as it is very competitive world I have got to struggle very hard to keep myself in the race and not only to be in the race but to win it, all the days of masti mazaak has gone now life is getting very serious and so need to move with the pace with lot of hardwork, zeal, seriousness, enthusiasm and with lot of dedication and Im already in the race and need to wait for the results but Im very happy as I was able to improve a lot in life because improvement is essential for every person to acheive success mentally and emotionally

Good as well as bad experiences in these 3 years have taught me many lessons such as:

1.Never ever expect anything in return for your work or efforts because you shouldn't be in a wrong impression that whatever we do is for others because whatever we do is not for others its for ourselves and also never expect appreciation from people, instead appreciate people so improve upon the relationship.
2.Never be pessimistic it affects the person personally and also the relationships and another advantage is you can keep moving ahead in life.

3.We should develop the quality of commitment not exactly speaking about relationship alone but many other things like your work, your duty and especially towards your responsibilty all this makes a person enrich his own personality and also the relationship.
4.Become responsible and people will like you and appreciate you.
5.Always remember its only when fail or fall badly you can win and move ahead in life very strongly because a person who always keeps winning and if the person falls suddenly the person will lose in life very badly but if the same person make himself understand that it was nothing which I lost I have many things better than this awaiting for me in life and just trust the Almighty and leave everything to him, he will take care of everything.

And there are many more things which these 3 years of graduation has brought a complete change in my life were in the good moments and good lessons exceed the bad one's for which Im very happy.In the mean time I regret as I did many wrong things in the process and I regret for the same but life is not just about crying for the past but to crave the future as life is to keep moving ahead with the lessons taught by the past and be a WINNER.

Picture(zindagi) abhi khatam nahi abhi bahut kuch hone ko ho lekin ab se nayi duniya aur thoda hatt ke jeene ka hai..........................................