Tuesday, February 23, 2010

All about a care taker…………..



Aha! Is this the right way to address a women who takes care of a child who is being appointed by the helpless parents when they are on job?????? I don’t think so it’s right because I’ve seen that these care takers really nourish and take care of a child as their own and I observed many of them at a single place and then I wondered how come a mother leave her own child in the hands of the other women that too when the child is just 3-4 years old, it sounds odd right even it did the same for me but when the same thought hit my heart and mind asking myself what would you do if you too were in the same position and leave your child in the hands of someone?????? And I had no answer, it’s really difficult to answer, a very difficult one. And I appreciate the women who have taken this bold and heart breaking decision and on the other hand appreciate the care takers who really handle the child as their own which is really a difficult job but what to do all human are helpless and money makes them act as various characters and some characters accepted by the society and some not. But I feel the child is unlucky on one hand because at such small age it’s in the hands of another women though the care taker will guide the child in right way obviously but its not comparable to the mothers love which the child will be deprived of atleast for some years of their life when they are a baby angel. And I feel more importantly the parents should be for their child once they become an adult because it’s only at this time the child begins to analyse things and understand feelings which will have a greater effect on the child-parent relationship. One thing I liked the most about these care takers are they tried and made every possible effort just to make the child eat, one of them told the child to look at the sky, train, car, birds and began making imaginary stories which were so fun to listen and I was all smiles listening to them and then I felt being a mother in future is really a challenge because lot of patience, courage, sacrifice, selfless love, care and everything is required to be a lovable mother and I salute to every women because only women knows what it takes and makes to be a woman(so ‘men’, side please:-)).I feel it’s a blessing to be a women because women has the blessing to give birth to the god’s own creation-human being.

Monday, February 22, 2010

My Name Is Khan……….


Movie was good but it was too filmy, romance, comic and fighting scenes where rarely seen but over all the movie was average and it only focused on conveying the message that all Muslims are not terrorists so stop having this wrong notion as the innocent of the same community are being the victim of this notion. And I must say the movie conveyed this message very strongly. I did like the movie because it starred my favorite Jodi at bollywood- Sharukh Khan & Kajol, I love Kajol performing because she performs very lively which I like a lot. Further I had the opportunity to watch the movie with my lovely friend which added up a lot, the companion really matters when you go to theatre and I love this ‘DOST’ of mine who is a wonderful companion and enjoyed a lot. What attracted me the most in the movie was about the character of Sharukh as ‘Rizwan Khan’ who is ‘Autistic’ and Autism is a disorder of neural development characterized by impaired social interaction and communication, and by restricted and repetitive behavior. These signs all begin before a child is three years old. Autism affects information processing in the brain by altering how nerve cells and their synapses connect and organize; how this occurs is not well understood. And yes one more thing which I liked and would like to implement the same in my life too is about the way the autistic people lead their life, it’s really amazing one and on the other hand its very difficult to practice because they are so systematic, disciplined, humble, honest and down to earth people that its wrong on the people who address them as mad and ill treat them because there is lot to learn from them to grow as a human, its really amazing to see them so organized though they being suffering from the disorder it never appears except the appearance and Im a great fan of such people really I will try to imbibe certain qualities from their life.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Learnings..........

Sometimes I feel life has so much fun and a purpose to live but sometimes completely contrary to the same as if there is no meaning to survive. Kya karein jeena tho padega he kyunki jeena isi ka naam hai, aur mein bhi thaan liya hai ki zindagi bas jeene ka naam hai isiliye nahi jiyungi balki zindagi ko ek maksat banakar use sajakar usko – khushi, kamiyabi aur sabe se badkar ek matlab banaungi, ab jeyenge ek veer yodha banker(shayad bhashan bahut ho gaya, full stop ) Hmmmm…. Daily I come across so many people and I observe them and some I found many category of people and here it goes, some people are satisfied with whatever they have(roti-kapada-makaan) i.e, the basic need which every human wants to survive but some desires more than basic need and the other fall in the category who dream really big(Maslows hierarchical need theory hmmm……not exactly).I really wonder how some people are so happy and joyful, I mean people with ‘bindaas’ attitude, really got to learn from them. I must say, we really should have a control on our life else life will start to have control on us. “Better late than never”, should be the approach towards life else one has to regret throughout life, is the lesson I learnt today. Well, today is a start of a life with new approach, new thoughts and new attitude, by new I mean the change of approach, learnt through the mistakes of the past. The ‘chattpatta’ part of the day was a lovely lunch with a lovely friend at our pasandida resto. Hoping and ensuring the best for the coming days in life……………

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Ek pal khushi tho dusra pal gam..........

Always, its always that the fruit will be in my hand and I will not be able to eat it not once, twice, thrice but always. How much to convince oneself telling this is not the end of life still many things to come, I question to god do I've to convince myself telling the same thing always?????????? one fourth of the life is gone and done nothing in life, I'm just a failure from all angles. God why people are so selfish that too our loved ones it just hurts. Though Im trying my best to involve in productive activities because I want to but not able to do why god why are you punishing me this way. Im just confused in life and broken up completely still how much failures and pains have you kept for me in store god how much god how much. There are serious problems going on in my life and Im trapped between the same and these problems are going to just going to cause havoc to a greater extent. Only god knows what more is left to face in life Im atleast broken up and not able to cope up with life. If I ignore these problems and run away it will keep worrying me more and which is not a right thing to do also and greater harm will be there and on the other end not able to solve the problem too so what do I do god please show me some way please. But at the end of the day Im very happy because some special event took place today and I just cant express them thank you friend for gifting with beautiful moments when I was going through hard times thank you so much and its ok some part of the plan couldn't get executed but definetly more of such moments will do come in the coming days of life. I really felt very special and a part of the family thank you everyone for adding life in me at hard times thank you. i think i should stop here else my thanks will never end.Though wishing for good moments in life but do not know what really god has in store for me :-)

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Renewed moments at Big Bazaar


Waw! Refreshing the moments at ‘Big Bazaar’, I had a great experience when I had been there at the first time and I’m happy that I captured them through blog and even now I’m very happy that I got another chance to experience the same moments but in a refined way. Yes, it was after a long time I went to ‘Big Bazaar’ with the same friend who had also been with me at the very first time I had a visit and this time though we did’nt shop much but we did shop the best as we took a gift to my friend’s dad on the eve of birthday and that made our shopping the best and later had our favourite ice cream too and as always I chose the best flavor ‘American dry fruits’ and my friend chose ‘Chocolate’ which is the best but it was not good here and my friend was left out with the bad choice(always ) if my friend goes through this surely get angry. Actually the day began very late and with lot of inconveniences and confusions but in the evening the day turned out so bright that I jumped all around with happiness. Thank you friend for making my day love you. The moments which I enjoyed a lot was when I was going to the temple. I was already very late and above that traffic jam on the way then had to change the route which took me round about and made me roam one fourth of the city and then after that I went some mile, look what the street didn’t have any partition to go to the other side of the road and then again I had to go round about and even then no partition then I started laughing and having self talk,’arey bhagwan hamesha mujhe he kyun fasate ho aur hamesha mujhe he dher se pahuchate ho aur daant khilawate ho’ and then I felt some sort of happiness because I was enjoying all that happened on the way, the way I drove vehicle with speed the way I took went round and round and round the city and the way I banged a person and the way I went on the wrong side of the road telling to myself, ‘ aaj jo bhi ho jaye, chahe fine he kyun na bhar doon, mein aaj wrong side pe jaaongi because I was late, I was too late and could’nt make my friend wait for such a long time, aur confidence ke saath road ke wrong side se gayi ) and then finally reached the temple. While coming back home I enjoyed the driving a lot I just cant express what I felt but yes definetly very sweet chweet tweet moments I just love it. All in all a very chulbuli day…….